Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Auld Lang Syne 2008

New Year's Eve Greetings! Not quite the post I had in mind but it's hard to concentrate with sneezing, coughing, fever and all that stuff. Norm and I hope everyone is having a great evening and we wish you a very Happy New Year in 2009, which isn't far from now in the Central Time Zone. I hope to write more tomorrow.

In the meantime, my resolutions for 2009 boil down to one thing, expressed in these three statements:

  • Use the good silver.
  • Eat dessert first.
  • Get on the plane.
More later. Happy New Year,

Monday, December 29, 2008

Fifth Day of Christmas

Saturday was a wild day: tornado warnings, 70 degrees, two inches of rain running off frozen ground into flooding creeks and rivers... the whole drama. Through it all, our trusty greens and bows clung to their posts and stood ready to welcome anyone who came by.

On Sunday we attended church in the morning and our neighbor's open house at night. Not much happening in these last few days of the year as we attempt to focus on sorting out the details of 2008 in preparation for 2009. We will keep the 12 days of Christmas and not take decorations down or put treasures away until Epiphany, January 6. Or thereabouts.

The post-Christmas cold is one tradition I had hoped to leave behind this year. No luck there.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

On the Third Day of Christmas

Somehow I missed posting on the second day of Christmas ...so much for end of the year resolutions! We were busy getting ready to have company, as the Dixons came over for dinner and we amused ourselves playing Apples to Apples, a game that Norm got for Christmas!

This year I was determined to get as many decorations as possible out, after being a minimalist for several years prior. Some of my Santas decided to join the display of trains, house and buses that my Dad made by hand during his long love affair with model making.


Daddy's trains top the piano all year long, and this fall I brought out the little house and the Greyhound buses he made. Then they became a Christmas train with the addition of Rudolph and some deer and trees and Santas from my collection.

This 27th of December sees both of us flirting with colds (this is like a re-run of a bad movie; last year I came down with a cold on the 26th. Ugh.) It also has us under tornado watch until noon. The temperature was 67 degrees at 8 a.m. Unseasonable. By late this afternoon we will be back in the 30s, average for this time of year. If we don't blow away, that is.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas

Greetings and Blessings to all on this bright Christmas morning in Missouri! Norm and I wish you joy, peace and above all, hope in what has been for many of us a stressful and trying season. The Love that came down at Christmas is with us always, if we will only take time to open our hearts and receive it.

On Christmas Eve we went to the candlelight service at our church, and while some braved the cold to go caroling, Norm and I spent a pleasant hour at the Kreuger's, visiting with Larry's 95-year-old mom Ruth and Dwayne, their son, helping a bit with getting out the goodies to come. The carolers arrived and we all enjoyed hot chocolate and an assortment of calories that would make any holiday host or hostess envious. We drove home on dry streets and then watched a broadcast of the midnight mass from Rome, topped off with the Christmas program of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Deciding we couldn't out wait St. Nick, we tumbled into bed around 2 a.m.

We are having our traditional Christmas pancake breakfast this morning, after which we'll open a present or two that Santa seems to have left, despite the fact that our chimney is sealed up. Later we'll have dinner and if it warms up enough (it's 21F now) we will walk around the block. Tonight we'll drive through neighborhoods admiring everyone's Christmas light displays. Oh, and this afternoon, we'll work on our Christmas/New Year's letter to go to family and friends.

In short, we give thanks for our health, for our loving family and dear friends, for the electronic miracle that brings greetings on this little laptop machine from far and near. As Tiny Tim says at the conclusion of Dickens' venerable A Christmas Carol, may God bless us, every one!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Little Christmas Eve

Somewhere I have a booklet about Advent Celebrations and it says that in Sweden, I think, there's a custom of celebrating Dec. 23 as Little Christmas Eve. On that night the children who "just can't wait" get to open one present, and a special meal is served. We celebrated Little Christmas Eve watching ice turn to rain, about three-quarters of an inch worth, and escaping the gloom of a cloudy day (we even had thunder around noon) by vacuuming the upstairs (Norm) and baking Christmas cookies (me.) The activity put us in better spirits. Tomorrow night we will attend the Christmas Eve Candlelight service at our church; it's supposed to be in the upper 30s and dry for a change!

Part of our welcome display on the porch at this season involves these obviously silk poinsettias (real ones could not have survived the 5-degree night we had on Monday!) and some artificial pine roping and the cream can that Norm dug up on the old Williams homestead in Western Kansas some 20 years or longer ago, on one of those memorable drives across the prairie we took with Norm's dad. It has a couple of holes in it that Leslie said came from Norm's uncle Morrison using it for target practice. Anyway, it frequently holds a seasonal bouquet and adds a little interest to the front porch.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Wind Chill Ushers in Winter

Today Norm and I went to book club (a photo of the group is on the Compton Cares blog) and then came home and decorated some more. These are the decorations Norm put up outside a week or so ago, when the weather was milder. I finally got a photo about mid day today, before the cold front hit. All evening the temperature has dropped and the wind is howling and rattling. Tomorrow the wind chill will stay below zero, and the "real" temperature will get only to 15 or 16. Happy First Day of Winter, everyone!

We are thrilled to hear that Walt is getting pain relief and hope it continues indefinitely. We are also getting all kinds of Christmas cards from family and friends, and yes, this year we will publish and mail the annual Christmas/New Year Holiday letter. Look for it around the end of the month. If you prefer to get an electronic version with all color photos, drop me a line or leave a comment and we'll send yours thataway.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Inching Toward Christmas

Maybe it's the cold, or the dreary cloudy days, or the continual threat of ice, but it's hard for me to focus on getting ready for Christmas, and it's less than a week away. Today I did finish the inside tree and the Star is on top, thanks to Norm's longer arms. The Santas are on the mantel although some of them elected to join Daddy's train. I'll have photos this weekend. I'm still trying to clear some book case tops for the nativities, though. Still have 8 of them to place--somewhere. This photo is of our little Alberta Spruce in the back yard. I took it last Sunday while it was unseasonably warm, late in the afternoon.

Tomorrow we have book club, and with luck I'll also get some baking done. I've held off doing Christmas cookies until this weekend, so we wouldn't consume them all before we could share them at open houses and parties. I planned to make fudge, too, but first I have to see if cleaning the microwave will stop the annoying arcing that it began doing this evening while I cooked supper. Overnight last night, our freezing rain changed to rain and then to thunderstorms around 2 a.m. By 6 a.m. this morning the next cold front arrived with strong, gusty winds that blew down some of the red bows, the wind chime, etc. We had two brief power outages--annoying because then I just had to reset all of the clocks again. For a while the refrigerator worried me, but I shut it off completely for half an hour and then turned it on, and the compressor kicked right in. Whew! Of course, if it did conk out, we have a freezer in the basement and it's cold enough outside to preserve almost anything until spring.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

New Voice in Blogs I Read

Today I added a new link to the "Blogs I Read" list on the right sidebar. It's Adventures in Life, a blog by a young missionary couple in Haiti. They are serving on behalf of Global Missions of the United Church of Christ and the Christian Church Disciples of Christ. Norm and I met them in September before they started their 4-year assignment. The musings of Patrick, who is teaching English and preparing to lecture to seminary students, and of Kim, a physician who is trying to survey the needs of the health system, are well-written and compelling. They are still struggling to learn Creole, but they are already deep in ministry in less than three months.

I realize the list is getting long, but the most recently updated rise to the top of the list. Four of these blogs are written by former students. Two are by family members. One is by a friend I last saw when we were both youth attending the same church in Tulsa, 50 or more years ago. And three of them I just found randomly on other people's blogs. All of them are interesting voices and usually well written. If you are so inclined, I think you might enjoy reading some of them from time to time.

This linking among bloggers is one of the phenomena of this form of publishing. Today Home Stories has been visited by about half a dozen people who followed a link in my signature when I left a comment on averyfineline.com. You just never know.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

An Icy Start to the Week

This picture was taken on Sunday afternoon, while it was still in the balmy 50s. Later that night the bottom fell out of the thermometer and we had freezing rain and sleet on Monday morning. Late Monday night we had a dusting of snow on top of the ice glaze, and this afternoon we had freezing drizzle. So I haven't been back outside to take more photos of our outside decorations.

Norm has been out, to the drugstore yesterday and to the bank today. We have been waiting for our extended warranty to pay the Chrysler service department so we can go pick up Gracie, who needed a new power steering pump. That was the source of the whining/growling noise. Hopefully we can retrieve our van tomorrow while it is forecast to be "dry" before rain comes in on Thursday.

Tonight we put most of the ornaments on our Christmas tree. There is still more decorating to do before the end of the week. But soon there will be even more pictures! We love to see that loyal family and friends are checking this blog daily. You know who you are. Thank you and may all of your holiday preparations and pre-Christmas events be merry.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Busy Week Winds Down

Just as this photo of clematis seeds evolving from the white flowers of autumn, tonight we are evolving from early to mid winter. The wind is howling from the south, bringing a warm up to the 50s that will crash, forecasters say, tomorrow night and set us up for a dandy ice storm. We hope it won't be as serious as the storm of Nov. 30-Dec. 1, 2006 or the current one in New England.

We managed to do everything on our busy week to-do list but one, and we also added a few more. Tonight we decided not to fight the traffic for 15 miles or so to go to the chorale concert. We hope we'll catch them another time, closer to home. Ava is staying with us overnight while Barb is in Kansas City. She'll be home tomorrow sometime, ahead of the storm.

On Thursday morning I participated in a focus group discussion about prescription drugs for a marketing research firm. It was the first time I have done that, although I've heard of focus groups my whole adult life. Eleven people sat around a conference table for two hours answering questions about generic medications, their pharmacy plans, cost, concerns about safety, etc. A consensus emerged that seemed to mystify our leader (although he could have been pretending.) All of us said we trusted our doctors more than pharmacists, insurance companies or employers (in that order) to give us straight talk about effectiveness and also costs. I know I have anecdotal evidence about this: our internist told me at my last visit that I could probably get my generic prescriptions filled at a number of local chains for less than my pharmacy benefit company was charging me for a co-pay. He was right. I took my two generic prescriptions to one of them and paid only $25 for the 90-day supply for both, instead of the $53 my insurance would have charged me. It is a really wacky world out there. The experience was interesting because everyone was well informed and came from many situations. A self-employed family with three children at home. A man who had lost his job and whose individual risk pool policy had such a high deductible he couldn't afford drug benefits. A guy in a body brace who said he took 8 medications and only 4 of them had generic equivalents. A retired teacher whose two adult children, two grandchildren and an aunt had moved in with him and his wife because of the economy. In some ways it was like being on a jury, but it paid better. I left with a check for $90 for two hours of "work." And the research company, Focus Pointe Global, has already e-mailed me asking if I'd be interested in another upcoming group. Maybe I've found my retirement job?

Today we took Gracie the minivan to the shop because it has been making a mysterious growling whining noise for a couple of weeks. Sort of like a transmission whine but not quite. Of course, it failed to make the noise this morning. But the service writer suspected the power steering pump because his mother's 2005 Caravan had done the same thing. We left Gracie for a technician to check, and for an oil change. Later we got a call that the pump was indeed at fault. It will be Monday before they can get the part, get our extended warranty to confirm coverage, and fix it. That's OK. I think it will be covered, and that's a relief.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Advent Event involves icing

Tonight our church held an Advent Event that started with a chicken and dumpling supper, progressed into a story hour that included a Nativity Story book illustrated by an Australian artist, and had its grand finale in construction of "gingerbread" houses from graham crackers. Norm and I are clearly novices at this craft, but we were proud that our little house was still standing at the end of the evening and actually made it all the way home tonight. Now, if we can only keep Ava from sampling it this weekend! More gingerbread houses can be seen on the Compton Cares blog.

Sunday, December 07, 2008

A Busy Week Ahead

Why, you ask, is a picture of an African Violet the featured photo for today? Well, it's blooming now on the window sill above the sink, and it's a miniature violet, not more than three inches across, and I like it. Also, I didn't get outside to take pictures of the decorations Norm put up on our porch and railings Saturday, but I will do that this week. Meanwhile, the amaryllis I featured yesterday has put up stalk #5. I just noticed it this morning!

This afternoon we picked up Barb at the airport and she and Ava were reunited. We already miss Ava's patter and insistence on playing with the blue ball and the purple squeaky thingy. But we will surely have other chances.

I looked at the calendar and we have something to do every day and night this week! It seems like everyone wants to cram activities into the second week of December to avoid being "too close" to Christmas. At least we are going to be well fed:
  • Monday: Tai Chi for me, water exercise for both of us, and an evening church budget meeting for me.
  • Tuesday: Church-related meetings in the evening for each of us, going in different directions: Disciples Women circle for me, Soul Care for Norm. Oh, and it's supposed to be nasty, rain changing to snow. We'll have to stay tuned on that one.
  • Wednesday: The UMSL retirees luncheon, water exercise for both of us, and a holiday party at a local restaurant with the water exercise bunch.
  • Thursday: Norm volunteers at Isaiah 58 in the morning , Tai Chi for me, and the Advent Event at church in the evening features chicken and dumplings, followed by story telling, singing and gingerbread house building.
  • Friday: lunch out with a friend from water exercise, and potluck dinner with the area Ministers and Significant Others group at a home in Wildwood.
  • Saturday: a concert by the St. Louis Chamber Chorale at a church that is halfway to Tulsa from here (well, as far west in West County as you can go, anyway) --but we have heard their CDs and know one of the singers and we are looking forward to it.
Undoubtedly I have forgotten something. But if I don't blog very often, at least you'll know what we are up to! (Another answer to the question: what do retired people do all day? That headline is the most frequent search item that brings total strangers to this blog. I guess it's a question for a lot of people, but in Australia, England and Turkey? Who knew?)

Saturday, December 06, 2008

A Warm Puppy is the Best Thing on a Cold Night

Barb is on a business trip and Ava has been keeping us company for a few days. Since the last time she slept over, she has calmed down a little bit but she still wants a good solid play time in the evening. Most of the day she is contented to follow us around, or sleep, or accompany Norm on a walk over to the bicycle path in the park and back. She has figured out it's OK to go to bed when Norm does instead of waiting for me, and also that it's going to be Norm, not me, who throws on some clothes and lets her out of a morning. Early morning, almost before light. (Sunrise is at 7:10 at our longitude/latitude right now.) This dog apparently has an embedded microchip that goes off like an alarm clock at 6:50 a.m. CST every day. At least that's when she starts to wake us up. So in addition to being a pretty good playmate, couch throw and foot blanket, she's a reliable wake up call as well.

Amaryllis Part II

Our gaggle of amarylli continue to provide us with joy. These are additions to the lone stalk I pictured earlier. It amazes me to think about how persistent and long-lived some plants can be. These bulbs are descendants of one Mom Linville gave me more than 20 years ago. She had the ancestors of these flowers who knows how long? Norm remembers an amaryllis this color blooming in the south window [Norm says it wasn't the kitchen, so I stand corrected] on the farm when he was little, more than 60 years ago. It bears a strong resemblance to a plant I found blooming in the Climatron at Missouri Botanical Garden, a native of Brazil whose botanical name I can't find now that I'm looking for it. Many family members have these flowers, including Kay and Don, whose sun room is perfect for them.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Preparations for the Season

While the sun was shining and the temperature climbed to 42 degrees, Norm got busy hanging bird feeders and relocating the bird bath near the garage electrical outlet so we can plug in the heater (after we find it.) Here, he checks out the oil sunflower feeder at the back of the yard, with his own patented system of baffles to keep squirrels out of the seed.
We also have a thistle feeder just outside the office window.

This afternoon I ran errands and shopped for groceries (what every St. Louisan does when even a dusting of snow is forecast.) When I got home, Norm had the holiday lights and red bows decorating the euonymous bushes out back and the little Alberta Spruce that Doug and Matt gave us a few years back. Finally, it's big enough to be decorated for Christmas!


Two versions of the same scene. Above, the lights as they appeared when my camera was set on auto flash. The photo at right resulted when I turned off the flash and shot available light. (Our neighbors' solid brick garage looks good in the background.) Both photos were put through some of iPhoto's adjustments, but neither does justice to how cool the lights and bows look.